GHarm will not lead you astray. He said pretty much what I had in mind when I read your post... .
I'm gonna dissagree with Mr. BIG on the lead bullet. A bullet with a little higher antimony/tin ratio will hold up pretty well in an autoloader sidearm, IMO. There are some that don't like them, but I've used them successfully.
Also gonna dissagree with AMink on factory ammo just a little. I trust my handloads just as much as any factory load, and typically, my handloads are little hotter than factory, so they'll do the job of defense a little better, IMO. But I shoot hundreds every year, and I know how they'll function in the real world. However, using handloads for personal defense can get you a good lawsuit, as many lawyers look for a way to sue you, and have found it in handloads. They claim you loaded the ammo to kill. Many juries will agree on grounds. I think it's better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6, though, so pick your poison.
Certainly agree the LEE dies are overlooked in quality. I have several, even a . 308 die that has the perfect neck for resizing match ammo. Puts . 002-03 thousandths pressure on the bullet... just enough to be sealed off, but not too much to cause a problem with accuracy.....

The LEE, RCBS, LYMAN, REDDING, and many others all have the same thread diameter, so they all work together. Most will go in and work with no problems in your press.
Carbide is the way to go, for sure, using clean brass and good lube, just not too much. I've had the best wear out of the RCBS, but I load quite a bit compared to most.
The . 38 is usually not too picky. I've got an older one or two, and they absolutely love lead bullets. I can shoot turtles in the head out to 50 yards on the tank, provided I do my part.

I've got a bunch of practice lead wadcutters I used to shoot for practice, so I now just shoot them to plink cans and turtles. Absolutely love that. Don't get to do it enough!!!
ON bullets, try calling or emailing Berry's Bullets.
www.berrysbullets.com They're out of stock on just about everything right now, but if you get your name on the list, they'll get you some in the next 2 months. They're slowly catching up. I got mine that I ordered in November just after Jan 1st... . I ordered some more recently, and they said they're 1-2 months behind on backorders, so get on the list if you're going to need them for matches... . or relaoding.
You can also backorder on websites such as
www.brownells.com, and when they get them, they'll send them out when your order comes up. Sierra is catching up slowly, as well. . 224 bullets are still way behind from ALL manufacturers, though. No signs of letting up, either. Good news is that in a year's time, I'll be buying . 224 bullets REALLY cheap!!!
