I'm not affiliated with AEV in any way, just needed to clarify some stuff here. I literally just joined as I was browsing the forum and saw this post. I have run a Carli pintop on my old 2010 Ram 2500, and an AEV system on my current 2016.
I see forum post after forum post on other websites about AEV's "cheap spacer lift". When you lift a vehicle with a linked front suspension, you are doing two things. First of all, you are increasing the angle of your track bar and drag link further beyond horizontal. You want those two to be as horizontal as possible, which is why AEV flips the drag link to the top of the steering arm on the knuckle, and also adds a new mount for the track bar on the axle that raises the mounting point for the track bar up higher. Ever seen a three link suspension on a rock buggy with a track bar? There is often an almost comically tall track bar mount on the axle end. This is to not only keep that track bar as horizontal as possible, but to also keep your roll center high. If you have a low roll center (the point around which your truck theoretically pivots when it leans side to side) it increases the leverage that the center of gravity has on the truck, thus giving you more body roll. If you can keep your roll center high up, close to your center of gravity, you can all but eliminate excessive body roll. Long story short, keep the track bar and drag link as horizontal as possible, and keep them up high. You'll notice other kits doing things like adding a drop pitman arm to keep the drag link horizontal, but all that does is keep your roll center low, thus giving you more body roll and usually bump steer, as your drag link and track bar are now at two different angles. Also, whenever your drag link angle is increased, you get bump steer. This is because when your suspension cycles, that angled drag link will literally push your pitman arm back and forth, giving you what is known as bump steer, where the steering wheel will go back and forth in your hands while your suspension cycles. In some cases, this can even occur when turning, or due to body roll. Other suspension systems will add a steering stabilizer (or two!) to help buffer this, but it's just a bandaid. AEV's old Nth degree jeep systems fixed all this as well, I was always impressed by them.
Lastly, yes, AEV uses a spacer, but it's not a spacer! To move that axle forward and get clearance at the rear of the fender for bigger tires, you have two choices, since the stock springs can't be moved forward as it will put them at an angle. Either go to a coilover, which will require a new mount at both the axle and the frame, or do what AEV has done, and create a spacer that effectively moves the spring pad back on the axle, so that the axle can be moved forward. This can ONLY be done with a spacer/spring perch relocator, not with just a longer spring. Let me repeat myself, as there seems to be a large portion of the internet that doesn't understand this. This can only be done with a coilover, or with a spring perch re-locator, or in this case, AEV is calling it a spacer. To clarify though, it is not just a spacer. It is allowing you to do three things: Lift your truck, move the front axle forward, and keep your stock spring frequency. I'm not going to go into spring frequency right now, but having played around a bunch with race buggy and dirt bike suspension, it is a real thing and more important than you may think. Of course, by moving your axle forward, the drag link and track bar mounting points to have be relocated too to accommodate this, along with steering, which is accomplished with AEV's kit.
After all that though, I will say that I am not the biggest fan of their digressive valved shocks that are included in the kit. If possible, do their kit and upgrade to a nice set of custom length kings or foxes from Thuren or a similar shock tuner of your choice. You'll be a lot happier.
Hope that all makes sense. Here's a video that they did on the subject that explains it a little better.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6u-BLepaShs