I was in the same boat as you with my truck. I had the stock system whitout kitty and a mbrp muffler. It too sounded great driving around town and would not be that annoying when not loaded, but when the trailer was hooked up the noise level would get very old fast.
I ordered a 4" Turbo Back Aluminized Silverline System for 315 shipped. Has welded hangers and nice band clamps that come with the exhaust. Also ordered a 19" 4" Resonator from Rip Rook to add the system. Before I installed it painted it with CAT Muffler paint which looks just like the factory black coating.
Fit n Finish is great, easy install. I am so glad I went with this setup. Startup and the exhaust is noticably quieter. Driving and it sounds like stock when not on the go pedal heavy, but when you give it some fuel you know there is a system on the truck but NO drone. The thing I love about this system is the Silverline muffler is straight through with no "veins" like most, and same with the resonator from Rip. So there is much turbo whitsle! Oo.
If you would like pics or more info just let me know. :-laf