3. 73's are never suitable for towing with A6's ? Can you expand on the reasons, or point me to a link with the info ?
Downshifting into 5th is good advice and would be what I'd be doing to keep it in the sweet spot range.
The lower 4. 10 rear end will run much cooler than a higher ratio towing the same load due to reduced pressure between the ring & pinion... The same applies to the transmission and is the reason that the owner's manual says to avoid towing in OD.
There is also the added cooling from the engine fan being able to draw more air through the rad. Also the oil and coolant temps will run lower due to the added mechanical advantage and reduced engine load.
Any pickup that tows heavy more than 50% of the time would surely benefit from the 4. 10's...
The 4500/5500's are built to tow heavy all the time and are frequently outfitted with utility beds, cranes, buckets (power company), roll backs to haul off the busted 6. oh no! Furds :-laf
AND sometimes the trailer that broke the turd (oops! I meant Furd) to begin with

, welding equipment, extra fuel tanks and thousands of pounds of tools, etc... That's why they don't offer the same gear ratios as the pickup trucks do

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So tell me, why would anyone want 3. 73 or 3. 42 gears for towing?
I have the 3. 73's in my '09 and love the way it pulls my 39' toyhauller maybe once or twice a year to go hunting or just to get away for a few days. But, If I were a 'full-timer' or towed to earn a living, I would have to agree with Harvey 100%
Truth be told... I wanted the 4. 10's, but I got one heck of a deal on this truck that only had 3 miles on it when I drove it off the lot

I do tow in 6th sometimes, but the hills and wind have me in 5th (direct) most of the time to preserve the trans, clutch, and that POS excuse for a flywheel :-laf