Two things already covered but worth repeating... plus one more that you just mentioned...
You will probably be at or above the tire ratings on your rear axle, regardless of ANY numbers you read on ANY sticker. Scale your truck, with the trailer as heavy as you expect to load it. Don't ignore what you might put in the cab (wife, kids too) or the bed, now or in the future. Don't forget your fuel and water tanks either. The rear axle is the most important weight you want to find out, and fully loaded, it will probably surprise you. 15-20% is a typical/good weight on the kingpin and with forward mounted generators, etc. in toy haulers they get heavy up front even empty... Oddly enough, a 14K tri-axle would actually be easier on your truck than a 10-12K two-axle (better brakes + lower % on the pin). Your new trailer should be pushing 2K on the pin. Everyone thinks their brakes are fine until they really have to stop fast. Never forget that, especially in corners and/or bad weather. My rule - no matter how good my brakes are... they still suck. Works great.
Remember that your TT would be likely to "drag" if it started sliding behind you but the 5th wheel will "drive" the truck if either the truck or trailer slides. If you overload the brakes on a TT it's no big deal (I guess) but the same mistake on a heavy 5th wheel trlr can be disasterous. Don't max out the controller and pre-train yourself to "release and steer" instead of "brake and wait"...
You gotta do what you gotta do, right? First and foremost you want to be as aware as possible of what limits you are pushing or exceeding. Keep all tires properly inflated... use the tire sidewall NOT the door sticker and check them when they are, in fact, cold and NEITHER is or has been in the sun. Mornings are best.
Next, get air bags. Not to increase your weight capacity. Ignore all that stuff as it is meaningless. The air bags are to keep your truck level. Find a good place to measure and record a reference height at the rear of the truck, carry a tape measure (always) and reproduce that height with the air bags when you are hooked up to the trailer. This will dramatically improve the handling of your truck, especially with a short wheel base. The bags will pay for themselves in fuel and reduced tire wear anyway. They are a no-brainer. If you can find one, adding or upgrading your rear sway bar will add even more stability. Addco and/or Helwig make them for most trucks. Finally, consider the best rear shocks you can find/afford. They also make a big difference in handling w/trailer and are often ignored.
Every time someone with a dually says "well, my truck only sinks "this much" with a trailer... " I say "well, that's too much... "
$40-60K truck, $25-50K trailer, $15K "stuff" in the trailer...
to broke (proud or lazy) to spend $0. 3K on air bags???
still rich enough to be happy w/60K vs. 110-120K on tires???
U-Joints, tie-rod ends, ball joints, bearings... all will last longer.
Headlights stay level... but won't last longer, sorry.
Last but not least is whether or not you really need that slider. Transport companies won't hire short beds, with or without sliders because... guess what... people still hit the cab with the trailer. Many (most???) people with sliders rarely (if ever) use them, even when they need them. They are expensive, HEAVY, more complicated and less adjustable. You also get more things that can fail and more "play" in the mount. I'm sure there are nice ones out there, especially the "automatic" ones but it is by no means a "neccesary" item. You can sell a std hitch at a minimal loss if you change your mind later but it's hard to move used, expensive hitches... different market.
Guess I'd make a lousy salesman.