The reflash is a TSB put out by Dodge to reporgram your transmission controller to help alleviate this problem. It works for some, not for others. You can also try the following:
1) Clean your battery cables, make sure the connections and all the terminsls that conncct to the terminal clamp are very clean. Take you time doing this. leave the batteries are disconnected for at least half an hour. This will reset the APPS. Now to reprogram it. Connect the batteries. Turn the truck on, do not start. Slowly push the throttle to the floor and slowly back up. Your APPS is recalibrated.
2) Get one of the Automatic transmission noise filters that are available from one or more of the aftermarket trans dealers.
Maybe even do both. One of the causes is very small nose spikes messing up the computers.
Hope this helps.
AC