Update
Thanks for the posts, you are all spot on!
There are 2ea 5/8-11 bolts that go through the tongue and coupler.
I went out this morning and pulled it apart to take measurements, this is what I found, there is . 150 difference in the tongue and the coupler, you couldn't ever tighten those bolts enough to clamp it as you point out.
I emailed the manufacturer about the problem and guess what no response!
Quiet a bit different when we were talking about which model and price, instant response then to no response now.
When I picked the trailer up one of the employee's used a forklift and put it on my trailer ball after setting the height for my truck, he tightened the bolts and made all connections,we checked the lights, chains etc and away I went 950 miles to home.
It wasn't until I unhooked the trailer that I found this!
On my way to work today I passed a Colorado State Patrol weight station so I stopped in and asked the same questions, they said don't put it on the road until I get that fixed. So thats where it stands, I will fix it since there has been no emails from them.