Where are you? There is a real nice looking 12 valve 4x4 3500 for sale near me, not sure what they are asking or any particulars but the truck looked real sharp from the road.
I had a 93 before this truck and the injection pump went at 110-120,000 miles, my neighbor at the time had a p pump 12 valve and his went at around 100,000 miles so I guess they all could have problems even though it's not as likely
My current truck has 97,200 miles and I haven't had any problems yet, knock on wood or wood substitute!

When I bought the truck used two and a half years ago I started coming here and learned of the lift pump problems, so I checked it out. The truck had 24,000 miles and the lift pump was almost dead, 6-8 psi or so at idle and 0 going down the road and I had no idea how long it had been that way but I got it replaced and shortly after put an Edge Comp on it and pierced the pump wire. Currently my fuel system is still stock but I keep an eye on fuel pressure and haven't had any trouble, 73,000 miles on the current lift pump.
Things that I believe but can't prove that help the life of the lift pump and therefore the VP are never letting the tank go below 1/4 tank. You can see fuel pressures dropping off if you let it run low. I use a fuel additive but haven't always so the jury is out there. That's my two cents. I trust my VP as much as I trust the rest of them. Would I rather have the p pump, probably but this is what I have and I am happy.