I was running the BFG's for the past 4 years (255 80 R17), but could only get about 24,000 miles out of them before they were on the wear bars. This year (yes, I have had to buy tires annually), I decided to try out the Cooper STT Max in 255 80 R17. So far, the Coopers seem to have a bit more sidewall flex, but are much quieter than the BFG's.
And, I agree the top pic looks best to me.