Thanks for the responses everyone. I took a 200 mile drive today with the tires at 65 front, 60 rear. The ride was harsh, but not unsafe. Parts of the Long Island Expressway (495) look like the Buhrma Road these days. The BQE and downtown Brooklyn are no better. Cornering and turning were better, but upon inspecting the treads afterward, I could see I was only running on the two center lugs, on the rear. The fronts were a little better, but not making full contact. I dropped the fronts to 60 and the rears to 55. I'll have to see how this compromise works out.
My speedo is now off by 5% vs. 3. 8% with the 285/75's I had on before(verified by GPS). I got 19. 3 mpg on the trip which is 1-2 better than i've been getting lately. Driving was mixed city/hiway. Average speed was 45 mph(GPS). Maybe slightly taller tire combined with 1 inch narrower tread made this possible.
Any other thoughts or comments on this tire/size would be appreciated. Next big test will be the ocean dunes on Saturday. I'll keep you posted.