Hunter,,,,,
When I ran the '14 it was very responsive... the housing coupled with some decent timing advance really made it "jumpy" when you'd get on it. .
I also found that there was actually some "haze reduction" even at idle...
I had generally less smoke right from the get go thru the throttle range... .
The 16cm still does very well but it is not as "clean" at the low/idle range RPM's.
Now as for EGT's... . well you can't have it all... . when I ran the non-gated 14 I had some serious EGT issues at the upper end... . heck, even with the 16cm I have EGT troubles and I do not tow or pack heavy loads.
You really should do some porting on the 14cm..... do some gasket matching on the housing inlet were it joins the exhaust manifold. Take your time and use care as the runner walls are not as thick as you might imagine. Use your thumb/index finger to "gauge" the wall thicknesses...
This will offer some modest help in allowing the gases to enter the housing as quickly as possible. It won't eliminate or provide huge relief to drive pressures but it will help a tad.
Keep in mind that with all you do in terms of porting and smoothing you'll definitely have to use the throttle with care to keep temps in line.
You CAN "tweak down" a tad and have less upper end issues though... the 14cm will help compensate a bit even when you have less fueling at the top end.
The exhaust sytem I had on the truck at the time I used the 14cm was utilizing the stock downpipe with heat shield. I was able to tweak it back enough (as I mentioned earlier) to connect the 14cm. It was a bit of fiddling and hanging your tongue just right but it was do-able with only minimal skin grafting and ice packs for the head lumps...


... (as an afterthought... . never sit right up straight while UNDER the truck... not good

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After you've done the exhaust re-connect, check the connection after a coulple days to see if you have any soot buildup or signs of exhaust leak at the V-Band connection. You may have to do some fiddling to make the connection tight.
In my case, I just loosened the V-Band clamp a tad and used a rubber mallet to help the connection "settle" together then re-tighten the clamp... took a few times but it finally sealed up.
Hope that helps bud... .

pb... .