update...cycled the engine on and off 6 times, check engine light went out on the fifth start, shifts fine now. found this bit of info on a previously undiscovered you tube vid.
couple other comments...
truck has about 90k on it. dealer (mistakenly?) changed the filter at 28K when I brought it in for a drain and fill. Weather they actually changed the filter or not, the inside of the transmission looked pristine. Very slight amount of gunk on the pan bottom and magnets. Fluid looked like new.
Gasket is supposed to be reusable. it had a couple spots where it appeared that the bolts had been overtorqued a bit and squished the gasket. the gasket had been attached to the pan with what I would imagine was form a gasket or something similar. I changed the gasket, cleaned up the pan and bolts real well, and it went back together nicely. I havent seen a torque value for these bolts, but I think it is about 6-8 ft/#. they were not that tight when I removed them, but 6-8ft/# seemed like a lot for the gasket. I snugged them up to about the same force it took to remove them. WAG on that. check for leaks down the road.
I had read reports that the bolts can snap off pretty easily. Mine went in and out smoothly. it did appear that they had a lock washer on them, but the washer didnt come off, so I left it. changing these bolts out to cap screws would make things much easier, especially dealing with the four bolts that you need to use a wobble extension on. just my opinion.
There is A LOT more fluid behind the filter than you would think. be prepared.
For those that havent done this service yet, it's not that hard, just work slow. I would also put the truck up on about 6" blocks.
Time to go for a ride -