Les,
Oil pressure is a function of oil viscosity, so of course an SAE 5w-30 or 10w-30 is going to give you slightly lower pressure than a 15w-40. For comparison the viscosity of the Series 3000 is about 11. 5 Cts (centistokes) when tested at 210F, whereas the 15w-40 Marine oil is 15. 0 Cts at 210F. I think you find the 5w-30 runs a bit cooler than a 15w-40, so the difference in oil pressure is not as great as this difference in viscosity would suggest. The general rule of thumb is that you want at least 10 psi/1000 rpms of engine speed to maintain full film (pressurized) lubrication in the bearings.
The dual remote kit is hooked up in-line, so you are not shunting off any oil flow and pressure should remain the same. There is some slight restriction in the oil lines that would account for a pressure drop (especially if they are long), but I think it would be minimal.
TS