75W90 Does very well
I have ran the 75W90 the last 160K miles (198K on the truck). Changed and oil tested the rear diff three times since and changed the front once. The front would not have a need for 75W140 and in cooler climates it is still "thicker" then 75W90 which will reduce any gain over straight 90wt.
I am staying with the 75W90 for the rear as I have pulled extreme loads for 700 miles trips once a month or so and the oil tests come back after 40K with very low wear metals, very low TAN or bottom line... . oil is more the adequate for the job. This is in a 96 5sp Dana 80 LSD. I do add the Mopar LSD fluid each change.
jjw
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