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I love to post stories of ordinary Americans, even new immigrant Americans, who are living the American dream of success and accumulating wealth. The stories, I believe, may possibly serve to provide a positive influence and motivate an occasional ambitious, hard-worker who wants to achieve success on his own. Success stories also disprove the ranting and blaming spewed by the America haters and the whiners, like my friend Gary with some letters and numbers in his forum name, who believe America has already failed and only big government can fix it.



A year ago I bought a new fiver with three slides which meant my backyard parking pad, behind/beside the garage, was no longer adequate to run out the slides when the trailer is parked or when an occasional RVer friend comes to visit and park in the backyard to use the hookups.



I recently asked my son-in-law, who is a successful general contractor, if he would recommend a concrete contractor to pour an additional 12' by 30' extension on the original pad. He sent me a man of Mexican ancestry who is a successful concrete contractor who does a lot of big jobs for my son-in-law and other big contractors.



I had the pleasure of talking with the man yesterday afternoon while he and one helper were setting the forms in readiness to pour concrete.



This man came to this country from Mexico approximately 30 years ago as a young, uneducated, illegal immigrant from incredible poverty. He was born into a family of 14 children who often didn't have enough to eat. The family rule was when there was not enough food, the older brothers had to go hungry so the younger children could eat. In America he quickly found work in TX as a helper for a brick mason and worked in that job for about ten years. Then he worked for a concrete contractor where he became the job foreman and worked as a foreman for approximately another ten years or more.



Less than ten years ago he started his own concrete contracting company. He employs 17 men, several of them his brothers, and has all the work he can handle. He owns several new trucks, several trailers, a nearly new large diesel-powered bucket loader, concrete saws, etc. . . all the equipment and men required to do large and small jobs. He does major jobs like new school projects or shopping center parking lots requiring hundreds of yards of concrete mix and has worked himself into a financially secure position so that he can bid those big jobs and pay for labor and materials from his own funds until the major contractor pays him. He told me he spent over $100,000 last year for ready mix concrete! The man proudly became a naturalized American citizen years ago. I was deeply moved by his success story.



His men completed my concrete pad today and it is a topnotch professional job. I didn't ask him what the cost will be and he didn't tell me. He will send me a bill in the mail and I will pay it. His is another typical American success story. He came here from deep in the interior of Mexico with no education, no skills, no fluency in the English language, and all the odds stacked against him. He is a success and on the way to retiring a wealthy man. He asked for and received no affirmative action or handouts from the government. He saw opportunity and went after it. He is a self-made success story!



Don't tell me that America is a bad country. Don't tell me that only the rich and powerful can be successful or wealthy. Don't tell me there are no opportunities for ordinary Americans. I know those words are simply an excuse for failure or excuse to demand that government take from some Americans who have legitimately earned their rewards to hand it to the non-producers. Every single man and woman who lives here can become successful, even wealthy!! All that is required is ambition, drive, hard work, honesty, and living by the rules.
 
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10 Secrets to Success from Investors Business Daily





As you have figured out I love Investors Business Daily. These are their 10 Secrets to Success and have become my mantra. They spent years analyzing leaders and successful people and most have these 10 traits.



1. How You Think is Everything: Always be positive. Think success, not failure. Be aware of a negative environment.



2. Decide Upon Your True Dreams and Goals: Write down your specific goals and and develope a plan to reach them



3. Take Action: Goals are nothing without action. Don't be afraid to get started. Just do it.



4. Never Stop Learning: Go back to school or read books. Get training and acquire skills.



5. Be Persistent and Work Hard: Success is a marathon. Not a sprint



6. Learn to Analyze Detail: Get all the facts, all the input. Learn from your mistakes



7. Focus on Your Time and Money: Don't let other people or things distract you.



8. Don't be afrain to Innovate, Be Different: Following the herd is a sure way to

mediocrity.



9. Deal and Communicate With People Effictively: No person is an island. Learn to understand and motivate others.



10. Be Honest and Dependable, Take Responsibility: Otherwise, Numbers 1-9 won't matter
 
I came across this poster at a friends home and liked it so much I bought 6 copies and have them posted at all my branch stores and in my home.



21 Suggestions for SUCCESS

1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or

misery.

2. Work at something you enjoy and that's worthy of your time and talent.

3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.

5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.

6. Be generous.

7. Have a grateful heart.

8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.

9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.

10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.

11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.

12. Commit yourself to quality.

13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on

relationships with people you love and respect.

14. Be loyal.

15. Be honest.

16. Be a self-starter.

17. Be decisive even if it means you'll sometimes be wrong.

18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.

19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you'll regret the things

you didn't do more than the ones you did.

20. Take good care of those you love.

21. Don't do anything that wouldn't make your Mom proud.

By: H. Jackson Brown, Jr.



P. S. I started working for my company 20 years ago as a inside counter sales rep and today I am one of the three owners
 
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Daytripper,



Congratulations on your success and thanks for sharing your recipes for success. Perhaps a silent reader will be impressed and download your recipes and make them his own.



Are you familiar with a book titled "The Millionaire Next Door?" It might be a book you'd enjoy reading. I found it in paperback years ago. The author pointed out several interesting facts about America. He said that millionaires are very common, may be your neighbor, often own and operate a small business, usually live a modest and frugal life, and most observers wouldn't realize that they are wealthy. He also pointed out that there is a huge difference between high income and actual wealth emphasizing the importance of living frugally, saving, and investing.



As you and I know, success stories like yours and the ones I have posted are all around us. I am fond of saying, "anyone can achieve success . . . without government assistance.
 
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Don't tell me that America is a bad country. Don't tell me that only the rich and powerful can be successful or wealthy. Don't tell me there are no opportunities for ordinary Americans. I know those words are simply an excuse for failure or excuse to demand that government take from some Americans who have legitimately earned their rewards to hand it to the non-producers. Every single man and woman who lives here can become successful, even wealthy!! All that is required is ambition, drive, hard work, honesty, and living by the rules.



Did you know that around 9 out of 10 millionaires are first generation wealthy here in the US?



I thought that the "millionaire next door" was very informative.
 
HBarlow, I knew a Mexican who came to this country at 14 years of age, he also worked in concrete, I knew him as I built a rack for his pick-up truck. We used to drink at a local bar. As a construction Millwright on one job there was a large floor that was being concreted, there was a large crew, probably 24 or so actually in the concrete. He was in the middle of them working very hard, I said to my work mates, "See that little Mexican working in the concrete, well he'll be signing those guys pay checks". They thought I was joking until I explained that he was the contractor. Later I told him of it, and he said he bid the job at . 97 cents ( I am unaware of the actual style of bidding but using the . 97 cents as an illustration) He said they didn't want to accept his figures but wanted to contract under their terms, it turned out that he ended up with $1. 23, so you sure know who was the honest man there. He also told me that he had a call from a large building contractor in Chicago to bid on a job there, he explained that he was sited in California, and in fact did not even contract out of his own county as he had sufficient work there. He then asked why he was called, the answer was they were looking for a Minority contractor, he replied he was a concrete contractor and not a Minority concrete contractor. I asked if he had ever returned to Mexico, he said he hated the place and would never return even for a visit as he had his mother here with him so nothing left there. I am against illegal immigration but a way should be found that those that will do the work should be given the chance as a guest worker. In the 50s the bracero system worked well in California, why try to fix a good thing that worked so well for all concerned? What a Screw Up.
 
MEby,



I think I have heard somewhere that most millionaires are self-made.



DJW,



I didn't ask how the concrete contractor I met obtained his citizenship, possibly an amnesty grant like back in 1986, I think.



I would fully support granting amnesty on a case by case basis for hardworking, self-sufficient illegals who were good citizens all though not legal citizens for a long period of years.
 
HB, in general many immigrants to any country see often see opportunities that native born reject. Americans to Australia and Australians to America. Someone sees a wreck of an old Barn, another sees prime well seasoned wood, often people look for real old looking wood to decorate practically anything. Met a Portuguese man that had lived in this country for over 20 years and never was employed, opened up a Landscaping business when he got here and done well, not rich by many standards, (after all only an opinion) but enjoyed a Rich Life and no Worries. Granted in some countries to open a business is the greatest task. I firmly believe that's why the USA is head and shoulders above the rest of the World, Individual Freedom.
 
... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... Granted in some countries to open a business is the greatest task. I firmly believe that's why the USA is head and shoulders above the rest of the World, Individual Freedom.



Me too. But the current political climate is a serious threat to our continued freedom.



The same government that can tell the automakers they must add all sorts of expensive, marginally reliable, high tech nonsense to cars and trucks can tell them they simply can no longer produce cars and trucks with internal combustion engines . . . . or, can tell the manufacturers they cannot produce private automobiles, only multi-passenger buses.



A government that can tell oil companies they must produce certain types of fuels and cannot produce others, can't drill or produce oil here or there, can also decide that we can no longer own or drive diesel-powered cars or trucks, or cannot burn petroleum products but must ride bicycles or walk.



A government that can tell a landowner he can't build his home on his land can tell an entire city population they can no longer live in their homes but must live in a government owned apartment compound so life will be "fair" for everyone.



A government that can tell successful citizens who earn high incomes that they cannot keep half of their earnings and cannot pass on their accumulated wealth to their children when they die can tell ordinary Americans they cannot keep their income either but must give it all to government and government will provide them with the housing, food, healthcare, and clothing prescribed by government.



Tragically, after many generations of Americans have fought and died for the freedoms we enjoy the current generations of voters are prepared to vote for government that will deny us more and more freedoms every year in return for handouts from the pockets of those more successful than they are. At what point will the voters decide they have gone too far?
 
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