like i've said before, the entries that i send to you folks are never seen by anyone but me. the wife makes fun of my private 'turbo buddies" but she let's me type last night my beloved wife's father died, this coming after both of my parents passing in the last six weeks. there is a circle that has surrounded our families, since we all met 18 years ago. my mom and dad's house served as a hospice house for all of my wife's family and friends during their stay in winston salem, and i know that my parents were very proud to be able to help their favorite people , my inlaws , even after death. its too bad that more people hold resentment for such petty things that occur in all families. once everyone is gone, such as in my case, at the age of 42, what's left?