draining the tank
The last time I had to do this was in a gasser but it worked to just pull the line loose from the pump and let it run into GI cans since the tank was higher (4x4). What about hooking up one of those fluid pumps for drills?
I would hesitate to use the lift pump since they are fragile already and running bad fuel through it can't be good. It you still want to use the pump, can't you just hot wire it to the battery without using the relay?