I installed a set on the front of my 2WD and am wondering how in the heck anyone was able to get the bushings to pancake out? When I put them in I tightened the top nut down about a half inch then installed the lower bolt. After putting the tire back on and lowering the truck to load up the shock I used a open end wrench on the nut and an allen wrench to hold the rod. I tightened it as much as I could but don't think its as tight as it should be as the rubber bushing is about a 1/8 inch from the end of the metal bushing. Is that normal or do I need to take it somewhere that has more tools than I do? TIA