New switch over heat solved.
So I finally dug into the problem and tested and inspected all light sockets, fuses, connectors, etc, etc. Then I pulled the new switch out and let it hang by the wiring. Turned the lights on and found the new switch was heating up big time. The heat was coming from the exposed reostat ring. Getting so hot I could not hold my finger on it.
My electrical savy buddy noticed a fair amount of OEM grease on the reostat contact area and wiped the grease off... bingo! No more heat.
Apparently the grease was either dielectric and pulling too many amps over the entire reostat contact area, or not dielectric and causing resistance at the contact area... . either way, no more heat and i'm done! New headlight switch is now working well and no heat (or burning smell) is present, stays completely cool.
If you have to replace your head light switch, wipe the exposed, excess grease of the new assembly.
In the process I also learned there is a recall #820 on certain 1500-2500 with the OEM trailering harness. The replacement harness has a relay build into it. I believe it is safe to say that the headlight switchs on these trucks are carrying too many amps, the factory tried various recalls to add the needed relays (which should have been there in the first place)
Post over... I hope
