To my knowledge, there is not an off the shelf setup to do this. I looked into it quite extensively for several months and went as far as designing a system to do this but the parts are very expensive. The reason they are so expensive is because of the temperature extremes (going from zero boost to 40 lbs on a hot summer day) as well as the sealing properties required, the valve material, number of cycles desired (longevity), switching time, recovery time (closing back under throttle) and a few other odds and ends.
Other types are available for gassers because they operate off vacuum. We don't have that luxury.
Our system will have to operate on differential pressure between the output of the turbo and the intake plenum. When the intake pressure exceeds the output of the turbo by some constant (maybe 6 psi), the blow off is triggered. Why so much problem finding valves. Find one that goes 0-40 (or higher) psi, electrically driven solenoid relief valve that will close in micro seconds after loosing signal so you retain boost after quick lift situation. Also, the valve will have to operate in ambient from let's say 0*F to 250*F (winter/summer with no boost to full boost).
This can be done. The parts are just expensive. Oh, yeah..... don't forget to calculate the bleed off through a 1/8, 1/4 and 1/2 NPT so you'll know if you are getting rid of the air fast enough at high pressures.
Finally, don't try to do this by connecting a microswitch to the accelerator peday and triggering the relief valve when you let off or you'll bleed pressure every time you coast. That will stop the barking, but you'll be constantly trying to spool the turbo back up after you do this.
Adjustable differential trigger points is the right way to do this little job, especially if you are racing.