TWilkening, I wouldn't put any more power to it without at least upgrading the TC, and preferably VB and Controller. As innocent as it seems in the beginning, wear takes time.
I ran my 00 3500 for approx 22,000 miles with a camper in the bed (Axle weight was 11,820 lbs) and towing a small trailer (1,680 lbs).
The only modifications to the truck were a BD Plug n Power and holes popped into the factory air box to allow more air. The holes came about in traveling in Southern States during winter.
The truck went on the road with approx 500 miles on the odometer. When the trip was nearing the end and the 47RE was showing signs of slipping on acceleration while loaded. I did pretty much baby it as much as I could throughout the trip while monitoring the EGT gage.
The thing to remember is Cause and Effect:
More fuel = higher EGT's.
Higher EGT's = shorter Transmission life.
Good Luck in Your Decision.