OK, I finally got it done, and had it aligned last night.
I bought the parts for a '99 2500 4x4 w/HD steering. Advance, NAPA, and Carquest had listings for the parts. I went with Advance since they were much cheaper, although the store manager that ordered the parts for me is a complete tard, and it took 2 1/2 wks an 3 trips to the store to get all the (right) parts.
ES3497 Passenger Inner (Short end of the Drag Link, attaches to Pitman), $28.
DS1459 Passenger Outer (Long end of Drag Link, attaches to Tie Rod), $29.
ES3496 Driver Outer (Short end of Tie Rod, attaches to Driver's knuckle), $29.
DS1456 Driver Inner (Long end of Tie Rod, attaches to Pass knuckle, has hole for Drag Link) $95.
ES3498S Tie Rod End Sleeve $25.
The adjuster sleeve on the drag link can be reused, but the one on the tie rod must be replace since the threads are bigger on the inv-t setup.
I lost my mounting for the stablizers (1 OE and 1 homebrew). IIRC, the OE setup on the inv-t is clamped on to the driver inner. Not sure if the frame mount is the same or not. I plan to weld a stud on somewhere when I get a chance, for now it feels ok without it though.
I haven't changed the pitman arm, since its not a wear item the parts stores don't carry them, I'm afraid to see what Dodge wants for one, given how proud they are of the rest of thier parts. The inv-y one has ~1" greater drop than the inv-t one. I can't adjust the steering wheel quite all the way, but its close. It would be pretty easy to shorten the ends of the drag link a little, but I think I'll try to find a pitman arm instead. Either way, it wont affect the alignment, may just have a little bump steer.
So far, the truck drives a lot better (of course I was replacing a worn drag link), and seems more solid going over bumps, doesn't feel like it wants to start wobbling (which it has always done, even before the old setup was worn).
Pete