It's been an insanely busy week but I finished the axle seal project and wanted to thank all the members that took time to respond to my questions and lend their support.
Overall, the project really was not that difficult, with one exception. The original problem was the driver's side seal, but with everything apart it seemed wise to replace the passenger's side too. So, I purchased both seals from the local Dodge Dealer and thought I was prepared. I've installed seals before, although not in this backwards fashion, so I was doing everything with extra care, not to damage the seals. The driver's side was first and was a bit difficult to get started straight (as if a bit too large) but finally went in and was not a problem. Now to the passenger's side where there is much less space to work with. Using the same methods, 5/8" threaded rod, 1 3/4" socket (as a guide) and some weight at the outside end (slide hammer fashion), I made MULTIPLE attempts to get the seal to start straight, without success. So, I tried using a large flat washer (identical in size to the seal) and tightening the threaded rod to suck the seal into place. WITHOUT SUCCESS! Next, oh did I mention, I'm on the third seal. I sanded the orange finish from the outside edge of the seal because it really was larger in diameter than the original. Again, I tried without success. So, as an experiment, I tried to install the original seal, and with care and a little effort it went right in. Jump to tomorrow and seal number four. After carefully removing the original seal and all of the orange finish from seal number four, I cut a piece of 3/4" emt long enough to go from the driver's side of the axle, through the differential housing to the CAD housing, where I could control it's placement against the flat washer and threaded rod that was holding the new seal in place with a slight pressure. Now, my helper had unimpeded access to hit this unit with more force, but after several attempts it was again unsuccessful and seal number four was destroyed! At this point it was time to install the original seal again and put the axle back together. That was uneventful and to this point (500 or so miles) there are no leaks.
I'm convinced that the new seals were stamped with tools so worn that tolerances are no longer in spec, so without some kind of magic, I don't see how the new seal could be installed. If anyone has had a similar experience or has anything to add to this I would love to hear from you.
My next plan is to check for other sources for the seal to see if there are other manufacturers, because at 172,000 miles the original seal is showing considerable wear and it's only a matter of time until it begins to leak.
Thanks again guys, Bill