How it all ended
I am now the proud owner of an '03 3500 HO Quad! I thought I'd share my experiences for others who are/will be looking:
I talked to four dealers before I bought out of Enumclaw Dodge. (I skipped Idaho because I didn't want to lose lemon law. )
First one was Dodge of Bellevue; they were nice but didn't tell me the whole story. This was early; I talked on and on about Dodge and exhaust brakes. The sales guy NEVER clarified that I could only get the brakes with a manual; I figured THAT out on this forum afterward.
Second one was Dwayne Layne (sp) in Everett. I already let Lynn know that Dwayne's retired and apparently his ethics don't remain. After I left, the guy called and offered me $5K UNDER wholesale for my truck. I laughed and said not to bother to call back if this was his starting spot.
Third one was Bbc Dodge in south Seattle. They referred me to an SLT listed on their web site, which I looked at before visiting. However, when I came in to meet with the guy, he showed me a Laramie ($5k 'nicer' than I wanted). When he started getting ready to do the slimeball sales routine ('let's get you set up. All I need is your DL and vehicle registration'), I left.
Fourth one was Enumclaw. They quoted me a price both on trade-in and purchase before I went there AND THAT's what I 'd paid when I left there - which was $6K less than Dwayne's. I was in and out in a little over an hour. Granted, my trade-in was at wholesale, and I could have received more if I sold it myself, BUT I saved almost $2K in taxes and many hours of hassle.
I'm scheduled to go to Torklift on Thursday and get my flipover ball and controller installed (see trailering forum). Many thanks!
Cheryl