Re: package abuse
Complaining to Fedex, UPS or any shipper for that matter likely will fall on deaf ears. Better to complain to the shipper, they carry more weight than you do. It may be the shipper's fault anyway. Regardless of being a small package or motor freight, have the time, "stuff" is not packaged adequately. I thought the problem was worse with larger freight but while my trailer was being unloaded the other day, one of UPS's small trucks pulled up and unloaded a few dozen boxes. As the driver was unloading, I am looking at the condition of the boxes and chatting with him. He's saying the same thing, look at the way this stuff is packed!
You need to understand, the pressure to move this stuff is big time and it gets down to money. I don't know about small package companies but freight haulers get pennies on a dollar of revenue. Roadway Express for instance had been making maybe 3 cents per dollar.
Individual deliveries have to get handled a lot to make it to your door. The above and human error can make it or "break" it.
One other point. Using the internet to get the best price, especially on items that go motor freight may not end up to be the best deal in the end. Your 500lb object may be waiting on the back of a 53' van at the end of your 2000' driveway. Not the short little six wheeler with a lift gate you thought you paid for.