I need to get a Donaldson muffler for mine. I dont think they are bad. Lot of farmers where I grew up run Donaldson mufflers and pipes on their semis, and they sound good and last decently, even the aluminized stuff. good thing about DOnaldson is that they are relatively inexpensive- a 4" straight through can be had for $50-75.
If you are going to be working on the exhaust, I wouldnt mess with 3". 4" is only pennies more, and gives you almost twice the flow potential.
Daniel