DN... . From the very start , I always had hard shifting, and even at 10,000 miles the shifting did not get any better as others claim. Never had an "extreme" problem in 1st or reverse. A friend of mine Peter of SouthBend Clutches, suggested I try using Redline MTL, along with prolong to see if this might help, as others (6-sp) owners, were complaining to Peter, that perhaps his clutches were causing the problem. Well, I tried his recommendation, and instantly the transmission came to life, after 32,000 miles of frustration!!! There was also, a Dodge Tech. Bulletin, ( I'll try to find it for you) regarding a fix for customers experiencing severe problems. The dodge manual for our trucks, basically, says maintenance free!!! No need to change, just top off!!!
Use only Texaco @#@@$. That product is a simple Texaco brand of 5w-30w motor oil, re-branded for Mopar for exclusive in house sales. Despite what "others" say, I do have some fuel & Oil experience for I worked for Chevron for 20 yrs. , helped develop and Market Delo 400 , as a lube engineer. Common sense should have told me there is no such thing as a maintenance free oil! Anyway, I believe the 6-sp trannies have such tight tolerances, they need to be kept cool as possible, have high lubricating property oils, and increased friction modifiers. Whether, Amsoil, Redline, Mopar "texaco" or whatever works for you, use it. Unless you use something with high detergent properties ie. , and not specific or specified for manual transmissions, you will not hurt the transmission through normal use. However, saying that, abuse, drag racing, truck pulling, dynoing, miss- shifting, heavy load pulling " will'' have an effect on reliability, wear and performance. Proper clutch and related parts of the clutch can also effect performance and wear. I would suggest, you change your transmission fluid and let us know the results? The other possibility, and you can contact Peter at South Bend Clutches and relate the symptom's, is worn out clutch parts.
Steve