I am probably not as experienced as you are with electronics, and I've been steadily forgetting what I knew over the past year becuase I've switched to mechanical design full time.
The good news is that they hired my cousin to be the tech when I stepped up, and he actually went to electronics school. I had a couple years of practical electronics in college, but it wasn't as much as what he got in tech school. He's a lot better at circuit design than I ever was. He also likes Jeeps and diesels. Between the two of us, we stand a reasonable chance of figuring out what the connectors are. Hopefully they are available from Digikey or some other place with a reasonable minimum purchase. We'll try to take a look at them over the weekend.
The best way to go would be to get a male and female version of that exact connector and make a pass through, attaching pin 1 to pin 1. Then you'd just need to crimp an extra wire into the ground and signal pins. It should be pretty to figure out which pins thoose are by backprobing with the engine on.
I would avoid cutting into the wires at all costs. If I was a Dodge tech and I saw that, I'd have to cancel the warranty.
I mentioned the pressure box idea to my cousin (he called to make sure my truck was OK after the dealer fixed my PS hose), and right away he wanted to tie it into the EGT thermocouple so it would de-fuel if the EGT gets too high

His idea is to put an amplifier with a gain of less than one on the pressure side so that the rail pressure would read the correct voltage at idle but less than actual pressure at the higher levels, with a very gradual change in between. He thought that might work for the MAP too, but I'm worried that it might make the computer think the boost was low enough to de-fuel. This all sounds good, but I really don't think I'll do it. It's fun to think about though
John Nutter