I can see the logic to combine the fuel to a common tank, but why do you want to pump fuel uphill to the aux tank? I added an 80 gal aux tank and used the gravity system available from Northern Tools. This system uses a tap into the main fuel rubber fill hose. It has a check valve in it that limits fuel intake so that it keeps the OEM tank full but will not overfill it. There is a shut off on the aux tank so I can disable the auto fill to the OEM tank if I choose. I put a locking fuel door on the truck and keep it locked. My aux tank has a fill cap next to the driver side of the truck and is level with the bed rail. My capper has flip up side windows so all I need to do is open the window and fuel the aux tank. This setup allows the OEM fuel gauge to sit on F until the aux tank is empty and then I know I have about 35 gal left before I need to fuel again. I also reset my overhead trip odometor when I do fill. When I get to about 1000 to 1200 miles, I start looking for a good price. This set up gives you the advantage of being able to use the OEM fuel gauge, using the OEM LP or doing a "normal" install of an aftermarket pump. I can remove the entire system with only the cost of fill hose, no additional pumps or wires or switches to go bad.
Some might be concerned of the legality of a gravity system but I do not do any commercial use and as far as I know their is no problem with personal use of this system. If you are the kind of guy that wares both a belt and suspenders, you can shut the aux system off untill you need a fill and then turn it on for an hour or so. Think of it as an 80 gal fuel can that you don't have to lift. The aux tank has a rollover check valve for the fill and I added one to the vent hose. I have left my aux tank turned on for about a year and have had no problems.
Good luck with whatever you decide. You will appreciate the additonal range and choices as to when and where you fuel.