the HX40 has the same embarassingly small shaft and less than desirable oiling as the HX35...
if the oiling doesn't kill an HX35, it's not going to kill an HX40... unless you're overspinning it of course and running the bearings dry.
the only thing that kills the HX40 is the added weight and inertia of the larger turbine wheel... so realy, letting off at high boost is your killer...
FWIW, I'm running a 60mm HX40-16w w/ unmodified oiling. the only "modification" that's been done is the wheels were zero balanced. it's seen 42psi every day of its life, and while I make a concious effort to roll off the throttle when merging or passing, I've let off the throttle at full boost a BUNCH of times.
turbo has 8k miles on it.
that's my limited experience w/ the HX40... take it for what it's worth.
also take THIS for what it's worth... I'm building twins, and I will NOT be using an HX40 turbine wheel... when I originally built this turbo, I didn't want to use an HX40 turbine wheel, but I couldn't find a 14 or 16 gated HX35 housing cheap enough. I got a gated HX40 housing for free. the decision was made...
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