I can't confirm or deny the "swapability" of the ford IC into the Dodge- hopefully someone can respond directly to the OP original question. Imho, I wouldn't have any problem using a "powerstroke" intercooler in a Dodge if it swapped reasonably easy; I'd speculate good chance that the ICs are made by independent suppliers, might be same company that made production runs for multiple different automobile companies, who knows.
I can tell you first-hand that a bigger IC makes a positive difference. I installed a Banks pkg. on my truck and the truck has had both pre-turbo and post-turbo EGT gauges since before the Banks install. When working the engine a bit, I'd say the bigger IC results in EGTs that are a solid 100F lower than before. Sometimes I think it's more like 150 or even 200F less than before. I have stock turbo and injectors.
My truck also has a Gearvendors overdrive unit (w/ 48RE), which was installed before the Banks pkg. Presence of the Banks intercooler gave me an added benefit I wasn't thinking about... I originally installed the GV for towing (lock the truck trans in 3rd gear, engage the GV, results in much better highway RPMs than trying to tow without the GV, using 48RE 4th gear). I discovered with the truck empty, I can run the 48RE in 4th AND engage the GV, which results in highway RPMs around 1500. The engine has plenty enough torque to run that way, but on grades that are anything beyond shallow, the EGTs would reach levels that I wasn't comfortable with. After installing the bigger IC, that's no longer a problem so I'm absolutely sure the upgraded IC is cooling the charge better. It's a simple case of cooling volume, and you can compare the stock IC to the bigger ones and see there's much more volume. Length and width aren't that much different, but the aftermarket ICs tend to be significantly thicker than the stocker. I do agree with #2 regarding price, though... You pay an inordinate amount of $$ to get that bigger intercooler. I had some incentive to do that anyway, because my 05 was one of the "lucky" ones that came with the plastic intercooler tanks to begin with
Also with the bigger IC and pipes, turbo spool is noticeably quicker. It was expensive, but I haven't regretted making the upgrade.