Here is my 5th gear nut story. At 50,000 miles on my '97 I wanted to check the nut before I went on a 2,000 mi trip towing our travel trailer. I got the Dodge upgrade nut before I started. Left the trans in the truck, just pulled the transfer case and tail housing of the transmission. When I got it all apart it looked fine, the nut hadn't back off, the staking on the nut still in the keyway of the shaft. I thought, what a waste of time. When I checked the tightness of the nut there was only about 10ft lbs of torque on it. Took the nut off, looked like the threads had been "pulled". I personally don't think that the nuts simply back off, the threads are stripped and the nuts pushed off. If the nuts simply back off, the threads would not be wasted. I thought , at least I caught it in time before the gear got loose on the shaft, wrong, the gear slide right off and had been hammering on the none splined part of the shaft. Since I didn't have a new gear I used Locketite 680 to secure the gear to the shaft and 277 to secure the new nut. That has been 110,000 miles ago with no problems, even with 300+ hp and towing 7,000 lbs in 5th gear. I'm hope that posting this will not jinx me, probably 5th will go out tomorrow, but I am glad I checked it and did what I did.
The job is not bad, 4-6 hours of work, but I would let the Locktite cure overnight before refilling and driving. Also have a GOOD quality 10mm 12 point wrench and socket before you start, some of those bolts are TIGHT.
Bob V