Hello, I helped a guy in Canada with about the same thing,we found the fuse under the hood by the batt. was bad.
Good luck dkoldno7
Was your trailer feed wire fuse blown ? if so you have lost your PICM or you may have other problem's
Did you switch the headlight switch or the multi function switch? My guess is that the problem is the headlight switch. bgI lost all my marker lights on the truck/trailer. I checked all the fuses, and relays dealing with it. I also switched my head light controller with my buddies and it works with his. Their are no codes(smarty/dash). What else should I look at?