All depends...
Distance from turbo to post probe, distance from exhaust manifold to pre probe, amount of fuel being delivered, ambient air temp, engine coolant temp, and if engine is being lugged. I have seen 1500' pre temps before for a short period, at the time the post was at 1100', fluctuations in pre turbo temp are quick to take place, a light roll off the throttle showed a drop to 1300' pre, while post sat at 1100' for awhile. Myself I know what my pre is, so I hold it under 1350', post is usually sitting around 1000' at this time. I am talking sustaining temps for awhile, not a quarter mile run, or pulling a sled down the dirt. I feel perfectly safe at these temps, I have pulled most of the passes in Colorado at these temps without a problem.
My best advice is that if you are at 2000 rpm, and doing around 60mph, you are most likely in fifth and have 4:10s. Let it go on down to fourth and keep it cool.
I am only speaking from experience on the B engine, with pre and post probes in normal locations. It does sound as if he is throwing too much fuel for prolonged towing situations, or he may have a breathing issue. As far as EGTs go, I have heard some here claim to have a private line to Cummins who state 1000 post is too high. I say it is OK for a time, as long as the engine can accelerate. I think for some reason people think their pistons are melting at 1350-1500 EGT. Like I have stated before cylinder temps themselves are very peaky, you have three strokes for them to cool between firing cycles. Most meltdowns happen when a whole mess of fuel is added in a unbalanced manner, stuck injector, hung valve, turbo failure, all this under extreme loads, high RPM, and general abuse.