You ask for the impossible, for no one could predict how long your trany will continue to live. As stated, driving style makes up a large portion of wear rate. Towing I think makes up the most, not light weight stuff but heavy (over 8,000lbs) towing, it is very hard on the stock torque converter. This is the week link in the system, it suffers from low oil pressure and a undersized clutch area. Towing heavy will accelerate it's wear to the point of slippage, once this starts (usually starts as a shutter) it is not long till replacement is necessary. Hard driving habits as well as difficult driving areas, like mountainous terrain, well also accelerate wear.
The truth is the stock transmission is capable of destroying itself at stock power levels. It takes very little abuse to start the cycle of accelerated wear in the TC, adding additional HP without strengthening the TC and or transmission will only create more problems. Guy's that simply commute to work everyday with their trucks will experience less wear and longer life then those that use their trucks to it's fullest potential. The Cummins is usually ordered by people that need it's torque to tow or haul heavy items, but this is also the group that will experience eerily failures. It's ironic, but also sad. Maybe Dodge will one day get around to addressing the problem?