First of all talk to Bill K. He can help you solve your dislike for an auto.
Maybe your really want a manual? Nothing wrong with that. To do it right, no shortcuts, I have heard of numbers in the $3800-$4000 range for a 5 speed. I'd assume a few hundred more for the 6.
I'm sure you could get a few bucks for your auto to help you save some money.
-Ryan