Too idle or not?? In the winter months I use 5w40 Rotella T and also plug it in with a timer that comes on up to 3 hrs before I need to start. Prior to shutting the truck down I put the heater controls on defrost and hot this allows warmed coolant to slowly circulate through the heater (at least on mine it does)
When I get up I quickly get dressed go out start the engine let it idle for several seconds after oil pressure builds, I then us my hand throttle (1990's with manual transmission came standard with this) and raise rpm to 12~1300 rpm, guessing. And turn the heater on high, the air feels slightly warm. I then finish my business 15~20 minutes then go. Truck is warm and windows defrosted.
I have never had fuel dilution or other issues doing this.
Idling a diesel 20 ~ 30 minutes won't hurt it if combustion temps are kept up. Cummins uses the term high idle when denoting the maximum no load engine speed. Idle could be 1800 rpm!
I've been to Alaska supporting development testing of the US Armies Bradley Fighting Vehicle in the 80'S and the VTA 903 Cummins would fail due to valves sticking in the valve guides if left to idle at minimum speed of 800 rpm at -40 degrees.
Diesels do not generate much heat at idle, unlike gasoline engines which can over-heat in summer traffic idling.
Testing concluded that (I do not recall the specific speed) if the engine idle was high enough to maintain coolant temp this was not an issue. Another point to consider is that vehicles in extreme cold weather are never shut off, but then they have no choice (ice road truckers).
I'm not implying that idling for hours will have no ill effects, but you can eliminate or at least minimize the adverse effects by using common sense.
I must admit that there are many differences between my 1990 and newer high HP diesels. The old iron seemed much more tolerant of abuse, neglect and operating conditions.
Fuel filtration tolerances have changed over the years, newer diesel fuel systems are manufactured to require fuel filtered to a few microns.
In 1990 the CTD required a 10 micron fuel filter (VE)
In 1994 the rating was 15 microns (P-pump)
In 2001 Duramax required a 2 micron filter.
As systems become more and more advanced they also become more problematic.
DPF's and CAT's require heat to operate properly which is not available at low speeds and loads.
My friends 7. 3 PS will idle up in cold weather to maintain coolant temp and I'm sure if the newer Cummins do the same.
As far as leaving the truck running while you quickly run in the store here are a few thoughts, keep a spare key on you so you can lock it, also it mite be a good idea to hide a key somewhere just in case.
Remote starters have a feature that allows you to remove the key leaving the engine running and doors locked while you step away. If someone manages to enter the vehicle it will shut down as soon as the brake is touched. You can also program the system to shut-down after a pre-determined time to properly cool the engine, say after five minutes which is required after a hard run.
My 1999 is currently off the road for the winter because it does not like the cold weather with the huge pump, injectors and torque converter. It's coming apart this winter to resolve some issues and civilize it a bit.
Sorry this is long but I rarely have a simple one line answer. My son recently said I ramble!
Ohhh well hope this helps.
Tim