I'm anal, and a worry wort ! Glad to meet you there Anal! I'm Todd and pretty easy going
sorry couldnt resist.
to help answer your question here. what i did was tone out the cable starting from the PDC in the camper, through the shore power connector and then to the plug in on the cable.
how i did this was, i identified the ground in the trailer inside the PDC. using an ohm meter and two jumpers long enough to reach from inside the trailer to the plug on the outside of the trailer i attached it to the ground at the PDC and then each lug unitl i found which lug was the ground at outside plug and marked it accordingly. Next the Neutral and then the Hot. Now you know which lug on the trailer shore power plug goes into each lug on the trailer umbilical cord.
Now "tone" the umbilical cord out the same way to the far end of it. From here you now know which wire is which at both ends of the umbilical cord and where each hits the gen set lugs. You've now traced the Ground, Nuetral and Hot wires from their respective terminations in the PDC through each plug in along the way (shore power plug and receptical) and out to the farthest end, the wall plug of the umblical cord. If you're using a dog bone adapter and havig to hard wire a plug on it to meet the gen set receptical type do the same for it. The gen set should be labeled with hot, ground and neutral or its manual should show a diagram for it's plug. this will insure you have proper polarity all the way from the gen set to the PDC terminations.
Something else I do on a side bar note, is when i get where i'm going i drop my chains to the ground and attach frame mounted ground wire I keep rolled up and stowed underneath to a 3 1/2' ground rod i hammer into the ground and water in, just to be safe. I know it should be a six foot rod but its better than nothing.