Coolant in oil is more common, than oil in coolant, usually if oring, or cavitation in liners occurs, youll get coolant in the oil. IT could be a crack somwhere in head?? Id sowly remove the oil pan drain plug, and see how much coolant is in the bottom of the pan if any. Does the oil look milky? If you have coolant in the oil, than its a good cance it is the liners, or the oring at the bottom of the liners, it also could be an internat crack in the water jacket.