Reduce the maximum rpms in which you are using the exhaust brake at. Say if you have been using the brake at 25-2700, cut it back to no more than 2000 rpm.
When I used to drive class 8 trucks, I drove this one truck that had 687K on it and when I would use the exhaust brake up near max rpms, it would push the dipstick up in the tube, until it vented the crankcase. By the way the motor was overhauled soon after this condition was found. I noticed it was getting kind of noisy when I cranked it up when cold.
Like the other guys said check your crankcase breather, it could be clogged. If not, I'm afraid your in for an overhaul. When was the last time the valves were adjusted? Have you been using a K&N drop in filter?
Good Luck
Don