The 60lb springs are only applicable to the 12 valve engine. It is my understanding that you can get a brake for the 30lb springs, but it is less effective.
The PacBrake, as I recall from the charts is not as aggressive as the BD for braking. (Charts showing all brakes and comparing effectiveness. ) The BD brake must be checked on ocassion for the correct pressures.
About a year ago, Dodge came out and said all exhaust brakes should be removed from the auto trannies. They worked out some deal with Cummins for a buy-back of their e brakes installed on the autos. They did not have control over other brands, such as BD, PacBrake, USGear, etc.
Any warranty is only as good as your dealer. Some honor them and some don't, no matter what you add or modify.
As far as the sounds... they all sound a bit different, and your exhaust changes that, also. I have seen many combos, and no two have been alike or sounded the same.
Choose wisely!