Problem With Girlfriend....What do i do..?

[XcumminsX]

 

[lschultz]

My sons name is Nick. Your young and sorta foolish. Don't left that stuff between them **** get you in trouble. It did my son but he married her and I got a great grand daughter so far. There are too many women out there. If she don't like the way you do things tell her see you. If she says she don't know how things will work out well somebody better know. You got to put your foot down now-this is the way things are. You gotta break em young.

 

[3atatime]

Let me handle this one guys!

Take it from the expert. Dude you are INSANE!!

Kat

 

[3atatime]

Oh yeah Ischultz. Like you would know!

 

[lmills]

Well, I am by no means an expert on marital advice. However, if I were you I wouldn't sweat it. If she really loves you, she will understand. You are best to find out now. If she is willing to leave you since you won't stay out late, then she isn't any where near ready to commit her life to you.

 

[lschultz]

Another one

Originally posted by 3atatime

Oh yeah Ischultz. Like you would know!

Its l no I. You get so upset with me your fingers don't hit the right key What I say goes. End of story.

 

[3atatime]

Oh whatever!!!

 

[lschultz]

I knew that would get you going. Whatever thats what my daughter tells me quite often.

 

[Camara]

Let her go. There are too many other fish in the ocean. Sharpen up your hook, put on some fresh bait and try another spot on the water.

 

[3atatime]

I just have two questions. One-Who would let YOU knock them up? and Two-Who wants to see me and lschultz scrap?

 

[jwoelfle]

Nick... stand your ground. Taking her out of the equation, it sounds like you got your head on straight for wanting to work and get through school. Don't let anyone convince you to stray from that course... there will be plenty of time to play later. If she really wants to spend the rest of her life with you, she'll understand. I didn't say she'd like it, but she'll understand and accept it. If you cave on something as trivial as staying out 2 hours later than you need to, she's gonna walk all over you for the rest of your relationship. You are at one of those stages in your life that will influence the rest of it and make you who you are going to be later. I'm not saying that you gotta be a cold hearted bast**d, but rather that you need to decide for yourself what obstacles in life are worth the struggle. As the old saying goes, you gotta learn when to pick your battles... unless you aren't ever gonna fight for anything important.





3atatime... can we make that a live webcast? or a pay per view?



Jim

 

[3atatime]

It'll have to be pay-per-view because I need some money.

 

[MMeier]

I'll put my money on 3, watch out Larry!!!

 

[Steve M]

I feel for you Nick. I cried many tears over my first true love. I thought there would never be another like her. My whole world crumbled and colapsed around me. I physically hurt I missed her so bad. I wasn't old enough to realize that she was only one of millions in this world who would be happy with an average Joe like me. After several other girlfriends and a 1st marriage and on my second marriage, I can't believe how I thought it was all over when it was just begining. Think with your head now. Your heart is wounded and it will recover. If the gal is that manipulative, you'll be thankful later on that you nipped it in the bud now whether you stay with her or not. She'll either hurt you all at once or a little bit at a time. The choice is yours. If it's over, cry all you want. Holding it in just holds it in longer. Gotta let it out. You'll feel better for it. You'll never forget her, but you'll move on and wind up with someone you care just as much for. Possibly more. I did.

That goes for the gals too. There's alot of self centered manipulative guys in the world controlling and tormenting those who love them.

 

[3atatime]

Awwwww! That was sooo f***** sweet!

 

[Sled Puller]

#1 no more flip outs, thats what they want. They get off on it.



#2 Sleep to work safe and keep your job is #1.



#3 If she acts this way now, it will get worse.



I had to drive 60 miles one way, 6 days a week, 12 hour days with other workers safety my responsibility. The ex, thought I should stay up all night and listen to her pshyco rants.

Goodbye.





#4 Play her game against her, tell her what she wants to hear, then do what you have to.



PRE#1!!!!!

Don't get her pregnant!!!!



Yea, yea, I know it FEELS like love, but trust me, it will wear off.

Theres not a nickels worth of difference in any of them, so unless she has money, use her,... I mean... have a mutual good time. . and let her go. LOL

 

[3atatime]

Originally posted by Sled Puller



PRE#1!!!!!

Don't get her pregnant!!!!



Amen to that! Thank you sleddy. It's not like the world is under populated or anything. Nobody should breed Anybody , at least NOT on purpose.

Kat

 

[Doc Tinker]

If you're worried about the relationship, then it isn't much of a relationship. If she can't accept the fact that you need to live your life on your terms then quietly move on. There will be a woman out there who will accept you as you are. Real love doesn't happen, it grows.



Doc

 

[JSmith]

Kid, I will call you kid. Look, you can`t make someone love you and you can`t make someone else have the same values as you.

Set your goals. If she does not want to go your route, let it be. Get your education. If she wants to party let her patry. You can`t stop her. You won`t miss her, she MAY miss you. It may be hard on you, but in the end it will make YOU stronger. Never ever let a woman have ultimate control of you. You will be lead around like a dog on a leash. And that ain`t right.

 

[Steve M]

Aw it'll be f***** sweet when he gets over her and gets laid by a new sweety. Right now he's young and hurtin'. Been there, done that. First time I got lucky after the heart ache I snapped out of it and was fine. He'll do the same I'm sure.



Sled, we used to call it the four F's. Find 'em, feel 'em, f*** 'em and forget 'em. But you said it so it sounds much nicer.

"Theres not a nickels worth of difference in any of them"

So there's less than a nickel's worth of difference between Kat and Hillary? I'll be damned. :-laf