WyoJim if your sevice man thinks that you purge a tank to remove oil, then you need to find a new place to have your unit serviced at.
You purge a new tank or a contaminated one to remove any air or other gas that is not Propane from it. The correct way is to have a hose and fitting that draws LP vapor from the top of the supply tank. The fitting you use is two valves set up on a "T", one leg is the valve from the supply tank, one leg is the valve that you use as a dump and the last leg has the fitting that you hook up to the tank to be purged. This set up is so you can dump the air and LP vapor from the new tank. You put about 20-25 LBS of vapor into the tank to be purged, then you close the supply tank valve, and open the dump valve. Repeat this four or five times and your new tank is ready to be filled. As for oil in the bottom of the tank, the best way is to empty the tank remove the valve, then clean the tank out. But if you need to do this, find another place to buy your LP, there isn't suppose to be that much oil in it.