Update: hopefully everyone can see this who posted above.
Dropped the tank, siphoned it out with an electric pump from Tractor Supply. Once i got to the bottom i used rags to soak the little bit the siphon couldnt get to. I then put a gallon of diesel into it and shook it around the tank to dilute any remaining gas. Sucked that out as before and put the tank back up. Added another gallon and a half of diesel to the tank.
Then went to the engine bay and cracked the fuel/water separator drain line (yellow top). I then hot wired the fuel lift pump to run diesel thru the lines. To do that i ran a wire from the positive terminal of the battery to the fuel lift pump fuse location using a paperclip. Ran that for a few minutes.
Once i did that I changed the fuel filter. Again, ran the fuel lift pump to prime the system.
Added the remaining diesel out of the 5 gallons i was using. I then turned the key to the On position about 5 times just to be sure the pump would prime the system from that route, turned the key to crank it and wouldnt you know, not a damn sputter. It cranked right up. I let it run a while just to be sure. Sure was a relief to hear that baby run again after i basically kicked it in the gut.
Finally I drove it to the gas station and filled it up with DIESEL. I added the Power Service Diesel Kleen (12oz) to the tank and drove it home (35 min drive from the in laws i worked on it at). Worked like a charm.
I did not take off the FCA and check for metal shavings. If I did and found metal shavings im not sure what that implies other then another ah **** moment.
I now have about 35 gallons of diesel/non-ethanol mix i dont know what im going to do with. Originally i had 1/4 tank of diesel before filling the remainder of the tank with gas. If its diluted enough I am wondering if I can use the mix in any way without hardly any issues.
Thanks everyone for their input on past posts and this one here. Hopefully this can help others if they dont find the other posts.
Again I put 3/4 tank with non ethanol gas and ran it for 6.5 miles. Did the above and it ran fine for a 21 mile drive.