Willy1947
You didn't provide trailer info so I'll answer your question in general terms. Tongue weight is the important factor.
The purpose of a weight equalizing hitch is to distribute trailer tongue weight between tow vehicle and trailer axles. The entire tongue weight of a heavy trailer resting on the rear of a tow vehicle can overload the rear axle, unload the front axle, and destablilize the towing vehicle by reducing front wheel steering and braking traction. This was important years ago when trailer pullers were sedans and light pickups. It is not very important on a Dodge Ram 3500 which can easily and safely carry the entire trailer tongue weight on the hitch ball (within truck and hitch specs). An unloaded Dodge-Cummins is heavy on the front wheels so the tongue weight of a heavy trailer will balance the weight between front and rear making the truck more stable.
The proper setup method for light trucks is to park truck and trailer on a level surface, disconnected, and measure the distances from the bottom edges of front and rear bumpers of the puller to the ground. Then, with trailer connected, measure the ride heights again. The goal is to create some spring deflection at the front as well as at the rear. More precisely, adjust the trunnion bar chains to distribute approximately 1/2 of the tongue weight to the rear axle and 1/4 to the front axle. The other 1/4 is shifted to the trailer axles. These figures are approximate to simplify explanation.
I tow an 8500# TT with a 3500 using a Reese dual-cam hitch assembly. A Reese dual-cam hitch needs tension on the trunnion bars to enable the anti-sway feature of the dual-cam to function but I allow most of the tongue weight of my trailer to ride on the rear axle of my Dodge. The Dodge Ram doesn't need weight transfer to the front wheels. When hitched up for travel with a full load of fuel in main and 70 gallon auxiliary tank, a Generac, and all the tools, equipment, wood leveling blocks, and other junk I carry, plus the tongue weight of my TT, the Dodge sits close to level instead of high in the rear as when unloaded.
I hope this answers your question.
Harvey