FWIW, 18 - 20 psi doesn't sound 'stock'. Usually a stock pump/injector/turbo housing is good for about 15psi. +-
Your doing pretty good at 20psi if you think it's still stock.
Injectors first, pump tune/timing next, 14cm housing next. That will give you a heck of basis for working up some nice power without going solarflare if its done right. The 16cm housing is a nice price/performance compromise if $$ are a major factor, otherwise grab the 14cm. I did not see any major EGT jumps when i went from the 18. 5cm to the 16cm. My younger brother has the Banks 14cm and he runs almost identical temps as me so unless your going GONZO on the power you should be ok.
The A518 is generally a good trans. if it's maintained. The VB flows oil better than the newer trans. according to Bill K. Depending on mileage/wear/service you may need to get the newer version of the A518 and upgrade the VB and TC to transfer more power.
Well thats a start.
Good luck and don't get discouraged, we'll all hang in with ya till it does what you want.
Regards, Bob