Joe,
I agree with you totally. My t/c has slipped before, but for a complete failure, I would think there would be more catastrophic slipping and noises. It didnt dawn on me at the time, but you are right, my force unlock switch would cause a light every time. I was a little distrubed after my trip to the transmission shop. I felt sure that if the t/c "blew up" there would be enough material to screw up other things. I came home and called DTT right away and got some tech advice. It looks like its 99% the solenoid that is bad. I am going to cut and splice the ground wire right at the transmission tomorrow and try to force lockup. The first time I did it was at the PCM. If it dont go then, I'll replace the solenoid and go from there.
That guy almost had me talked into a transmission rebuild. (not that I dont need one anyway, but the checkbook says I dont)
I haven't read alot about these solenoid problems here, but I guess most guys have their transmission rebuilt before they go bad. Anyone give me any hints on changing them? I'll talk to the boys at DTT tomorrow. I'll buy the solenoids from them to pay back for the free advice. LOL but I hate bothering them I know they have more things to do than talk some transmission challenged guy like me through something stupid when its not even their transmission.