You're putting a lot of fuel through for a stock HX35. Does it bark when you let off after a hard acceleration? If so, you might want to remove the silencer ring. While you're looking in there, check for any scoring or scratches from the compressor wheel hitting the insides of the housing.
Check for in and out and side to side shaft play. If it has scratched just a little, you could probably port the area around it and be OK. When ported correctly, you won't have any more bark. I never hear mine anymore. If there is too much movement, you may get away with just replacing the thrust bearing or something simple and not have to replace your turbo, which was the case with mine.
If you still smoke hard and run hot, you would probably be much happier with a bigger turbo, or you can just detune a little. Personally, i can't stand having turbo lag so i'm planning to add a second turbo under the hood. I'm running more fuel than you, but my ported HX35 does a good job up to a point. The 14 housing would only be a bad idea if you think you'll out grow it soon.