Thanks fellas--I appreciate all the advice. I love my current truck and the thought of losing $5-7K and getting a hemi in return makes me cringe... despite the fact that most of what I've read bears out that the Hemi would likely do a satisfactory job of meeting my towing needs and would be an easier drive around town with less maintenance hassles and expense than the Cummins.
My truck only has 37K miles on it and the Cummins is just getting broken in... and it's paid for! The G56 has loosened up and shifts like a car. Fuel mileage is also getting better too--15 in town and 19+ on the Interstate this last weekend running 75-80 (based on overhead display). Have never had a single problem or CEL with this truck since new--100% trouble free except for the oil level rising a little between oil changes which has always bugged me just a little bit. The $120 oil changes are getting old and I always keep the EB on and let the turbo cool down for a few minutes before shutting my truck off after highway driving or towing. Last trailer tow from Michigan (old trailer about 6. 5K# loaded) netted me an average around 12mpg hand calculated. A Hemi in a 6200lb 3/4 truck will come nowhere close to that loaded, and might be good for 14-15mpg in normal driving unloaded.
I will say though I was impressed with the 2011 Hemi 2500 I test drove--it does drive nice!
One other thing I've noticed too in the research I'm doing is that the Cummins has unbeatable resale value. My truck is 3 years old and is worth $26,500 on a trade in based on Kelly Blue Book and the dealer wanted to give me $26K to trade for the Hemi. That's amazing resale value, especially considering I only paid $31,700 for it brand new (got a smoking deal). Not so with the Hemi--if my truck had a hemi it would only be worth 19K at best on a trade in (and it would be a 2500 since you couldn't get the hemi in a 3500 in 2007).
HB--I like the idea of reducing the air pressure in the tires. How much air pressure could I give up before I risk hurting the tires or running tire pressures too low to be safe? Right now, I run 60 psi. Still have the original Michelins and they have about 50% tread left. Also the idea of taking a leaf out of the springs might help as well.
Surf--will check out the Kelderman idea too. The back seat for the kids is part of the equation but given the fact that they only ride back there when the whole family goes camping (we take the car when we go out around town) we can live with the QC for now.
MChrist--I test drove a Tundra--nice truck and it would probably work for my needs. But the dealer was mighty proud of that CrewMax Limited with the big V-8 and 4wd. I could get a Ram 2500 Cummins for about $1-2K more than the Tundra and the 2500 hemi for about $6K less.
The same thing with the Chevy HDs. The Silverado with the 6. 2L V8 goes $39K new at the local dealer, they are nearly as much as the 2500 Ram with the Cummins. The Duramax Chevy I looked at was $48K. I didn't look at the Fords... would only consider the F150... not confident in the Superduties with their history of engine problems.
If I could make my current truck ride a little smoother ride it might be alright. Right now it rides like a skateboard. So any more ideas for making that possible are appreciated. That's probably my first choice at this point... . but I'm still undecided. Will take my time on this and shop around--the prices above reflect a couple quick visits to the local dealers.
Will know for sure how bad this back thing is tomorrow after I see the neurosurgeon. Could be something as minor is lopping off a tiny part of my herniated disc (L3/L4) to getting the disc taken out, fusing the two vertebrae together and wiring it all back together with titanium screws, rods and a cage.
Man I wish I was 25 again!
Here's a picture of my truck as it looks today: