Doug, everyone,
I live in northen California, temps this time of year range from ~30*F first thing in the morning to ~60*F in the afternoon (I'm talking air temps, not transmission temps here). In the summer, air temps range from 60's to 110*F.
This time of year, my transmission temps never get over 110*F, in the summer, I think they were running about 160*F at the highest. This is running empty though. I don't tow anything, and rarely haul much weight, so realize that if you tow or haul often, temps would of course be higher. I believe I remember reading on past TDR threads that transmission temps (for manual trannies) are safe under 210 - 220*F... .
My rear diff temps are usually ~15*F higher than the transmission, as I said earlier.
Tom